Needy
I've decided there is nothing worse than being needy and/or needing attention from someone who either can't give it to you or won't. For whatever reason.
Right now, I'll openly admit I'm feeling needy. I need reassurance and attention from someone who, I feel, is kinda hoping to erase me altogether. Perhaps, I'm being dramatic. I don't know. I just know that something feels weird and I don't know how to fix it because I'm afraid to rock the boat and make this person more uncomfortable then I worry he already is.
How do I fix this?
posted by TF @ 2:12 PM
9 Comments:
Needy is my middle name. Although I can't offer advice, cause I am currently in the same boat, I offer you by support. Whatever you need Miss Tali, I am here for you. Give it some time, our neediness will pass.
well, my track record with girls isn't one of glittering success, but i always prefer to sink - if sinking be my destiny - with my colours flying.
in other words, push it as far as you want. confront. say what you expect of your guy.
you worry about making someone uncomfortable? when YOU need comfort? oh, no, tali. things don't work like that. if a guy matters, he matters when YOU need him to. if he can't give you that, then walk, he ain't worth one more second of your thoughts.
i don't know you, we've only exchanged one email, but i think that anyone with the wit to write as you do deserves an appropriate response from those people important to her.
you tell me, are you getting that response from the people that matter to you? if not, get rid of them from your life. they have no place there.
jesus, i got serious. in a blog. i must be ill.
ro.
I've always felt friends are a fantastic way of feeling loved and appreciated. Not the same as a nice, warm boy, but less inclined to make you miserable.
Stop worrying about "the person's" comfort. Stand tall, and tell everyone else to get stuffed. (Crap, did I just summarize Ro's post? Ah, well.)
Finally, go listen to The Clash's first album, and buy yourself a dark chocolte truffle from Godiva. And pinch someone's bum today.
Dunno if this can be fixed Tali. I think it just kinda has to wash away, or heal itself in good time. Just try and be the happiest Tali you can be and go from there.
Happy labor day T
Are you fucking kidding me???? Do you even realize what you are writing? Needy, come on. Do you enjoy sitting in your own self pitty, I mean here you are at your pitty party and look around, NO ONE ELSE IS THERE!!!! Shit happens to people in life but we get over it and get help if need be. I am sorry I am being so mean but it makes me mad to see these entries.
You just said the guy wants to erase you, feels uncomfortable, you don't want to mention anything in fear of rocking the boat??? Ah hello, this doesn't sound like a nice person....rock the boat, tip the fucking thing over, get out of there and swim your ass back to sanity.
You are not only needy, you are pathetic.
Tali, you and I have talked and I've told you how I feel about this...but this anonymous post - pay no attention. You're a strong person in your day-to-day life and this is a good place to let out all your uncertainties - that's what diaries and journals are for. We read because we care and because anyone can identify with situations like this. And to anonymous I say, if it makes you mad, don't read it. If you want to offer advice, be civil. "I am sorry I'm being so mean"? No, you're not. "Tough love" crap like that is usually just an excuse for being an asshole.
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Dear Anonymous,
Ditch the cliches, learn to spell, and find some opinions worth posting. Then get your own blog.
Until then, fuck off.
Love,
The Rest Of Us
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